Friday, October 10, 2008

Its soo true....

Through the course of time, I have learnt quite a few things in life. One doesn't realize these things until one actually experiences them and contemplate on what is going on.

I have learnt through my experiences that once you get out of your defined comfort zone and start realizing how life n world works then the mere existence of the people, who contradict what your experiences have to tell you, starts annoying you. The more people you meet the more you find another bunch of people extremely irritating. And its funny that once you actually believed in their ideology and thought all are like-minded!!! Then you start realizing how wrong you were in knowing and judging people. I don't know about people but it often happens with me.

I have learnt through my experiences never to judge anyone based on their appearances, on the way they speak or most importantly, based on their past life! Simply put I have learnt not to judge anyone. Because you will always be judged back and the fact remains that judging people prior to knowing them always leads to wrong results.

I have learnt through my experiences that some random people are always rooting for you and some random people have expectations from you. And you on your part are always “Expected” to respect their expectations and live up to them. This also means that if u have to respect d expectations of some random people, then u also have to fulfill n respect the expectations of your near n dear ones as they are the only people who genuinely love you and care for you!!

I have learnt through my experiences if people believe that ‘Pen is mightier than sword’ then I have started believing that ‘Tongue is mightier than pen’. What a written piece of paper cannot achieve, can be easily achieved, if conveyed properly, through speech. It can also be used effectively to make a point, to hurt someone or to make someone’s day!!!

These things tend to become so obvious with time that we start taking them for granted and the people around us also!!

Too emotional?? May be yes.. but its soo true!!!!

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